Second Chances

I believe in second chances.

Not because I’m hopelessly lost in my romantic thoughts in an unrational way, but because I think that we are human.

And beeing human means making mistakes, fail, hurting people. There is no way to deny it. It lies in our human nature as we are not perfect and we will never be. We sometimes make stupid choices, say things or do dumb stuff, we can’t avoid that, but as much as we wish that we didn’t do or say this things, we did. We can’t change what happed, we can’t undo what’s done and we can’t unsay what is said. That’s how things work. Time goes only in one direction. So we find ourselves here, full of mistakes and faillures, full of scars and wounds, imperfekt and messy ans we ask ourseves how the hell someone could love this chaotic person?
Well, the answer is simple: We do, too. The way we think about ourselves others do, too. We are not the only one who make mistake, everybody does. So if we love a person it means that we are aware oft he mess she is and so does the person in return. And thats why everyone deseves a second chance, because we are all imperfect, we are al a catastrophy sometimes. Of corse we often wish that we could turn back time, change things, make them better, but unfortunatlly that’s not how life goes. We’re responsible for our fauls, and though we’re not proud oft them to most mature thing to do is accept the fact that they happed and promies to keep in mind the lesson. Every mistake teaches us something and who knows maybe we were sopposed to do somethings, maybe the only way to lern something ist he hard way.

I don’t know, but what I know is that life ist to short too to regret things. One should lern from them and leave them in peace. After all our time is limited, so don’t forget to fucking live instead of thinking. So please stop talking about all this „To day is a new blank page“-shit, cause you’re never going to be a blank page. If you would then you needed to make the same mistakes over and over again.

So some people deserve second chances, just try to not ruin them! And keep in mind that we are all human and we are all a mess sometimes.